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7:
A Different Answer for Difficult Kids
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Hope for Treating Defiance and Aggression
Where can parents turn for help with their children who act out,
defy them unreasonably, fly into rages, or explode with violent
and destructive tantrums? Normal parenting is hard enough, but having
to raise a rageaholic child can be beyond the call of duty. Homeopathy,
though not a panacea, offers a viable solution for handling these
emotional and behavioral problems that is safe, natural, and highly
effective. Homeopathy has the potential to cure children of these
distressing states of mind and behavior. Given sufficient time to
act and careful attention by an experienced practitioner to medicine
selection, dosage, and frequency of medication, homeopathy will
produce positive changes in most children. In reviewing our cases,
we estimate a 70 percent success rate in children who receive two
years of consistent treatment. A significant positive shift often
occurs within four to six weeks after taking the medicine, but a
minimum of two years of treatment is needed to assure that the improvements
are maintained over time.
How Can Homeopathy Help My Child?
Although homeopathy may not work for every child, the majority of
our patients have become much less aggressive and violent, considerably
nicer, much more compliant, and easier to live with after treatment.
They are more capable of dealing with stressful situations, frustration,
or simply being told no without losing it and becoming angry, oppositional,
aggressive, violent, or destructive. Many children become significantly
less reactive and more willing to listen to explanations of what
parents want them to do. The ADHD characteristics of distractibility,
impulsivity, and hyperactivity become much more manageable (see
our book Ritalin-Free Kids). Physical fighting with parents, siblings,
schoolmates, and friends becomes considerably less frequent. Incidents
at school become rare events rather than everyday occurrences. Destruction
of property becomes accidental rather than deliberate. Children
often develop a greater sense of right and wrong and act as though
they now have a conscience that guides their actions, so lying,
stealing, and hurting others are considerably diminished.
Does it sound to good to be true? Read the cases in this book, summarized
and quoted from our chart notes, and judge for yourself. The stories
are presented here just as they were told to us. The results of
the homeopathic medicine, good and bad, are there to see. Only the
names and other identifying features have been changed. Granted,
these are our best cases, some of which seem miraculous, but the
results are real. Other cases, not in the book, have been more challenging
and the results less astounding. Unfortunately, there are some children
whom, try as we might, we cannot help. With others, though the change
is not as immediate or dramatic as the cases in our book, the parents
feel that a significant enough change occurs to warrant continued
homeopathic treatment. In some of these cases, a dramatic change
may not occur for a year or two, when the correct medicine is finally
found. Children treated successfully with homeopathy, though not
without the ups and downs that occur for every child, can truly
be called rage-free kids. Their parents, family members, teachers,
and friends can finally go back to living a more normal life.
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